@ the Junction

You might perceive i'm standing in the valley of the world cause some emo post earlier. I even have one of my caring friend calling me to ask me whether i'm okay. I'm very appreciate i gotten friends to support in this period of time. I'm NOT standing at the valley of the mountain and i will NOT allow myself to reach there. I know inside me something is bothering me but i'm trying very hard to overcome my inner self before reaching out to close the gap. Honestly, i'm in a junction of my path and some thought need to be put together to make a better future for me and people surrounding me. * Listening to this song while writing this post

I hope the junction that i encountered is as simple as this but this is really not the case... 

www.rulesoftheroad.ie

Is this junction that i'm in right now. Hopefully NOT~  

Picture adapted from www.cyclismas,com

Until now, i still haven't have an idea how my junction looks like, i can see a few paths and lot's of assessment and analysis needed to figure out how my junction looks like. A lot of unclear paths are hidden in the fog...

Whenever, you are in the junction. A very important skillset you need to apply i.e. DECISION MAKING. You need to be more objective to pull yourself back to make a wise decision... making decision is NOT easy eh~ If you are trying to avoid making decision or afraid to make decision and let it be. You are actually made a worst decision. No matter how we need to make DECISION.

Do you think the world is being FAIR?

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;

When troubles come and my heart burdened be; 

Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,

Until you come and sit awhile with me.

adapted from You Raise Me Up - Josh Groban

I heard many story/case about blaming on the world and stated the world is NOT fair to him or her. Do you think the world is FAIR?

Some people just blaming and blaming the world is NOT fair to them when trouble comes in their way... why they are born this way, why they always get the worst scenario? Why, why, why and why? I don't need to mention any example here, you may see yourself in Facebook. Maybe we should build an social application and call "FAIR?" This application will give those emo/blamer to post their thought into the wall of the FAIR?.com

I myself will also blame the world for not giving me an easy life... also give me so many challenges to challenge me and make my life going up and down. I just realized that the world has been fair as i was not having the worst in the world. I have a good job, A supportive parents and plenty of caring friends. What would i have say the world is NOT fair?

To those who has blamed the world is being NOT fair, please re-look at what you have and then only comments that world is NOT Fair...  

Signal and hint from others

Sometime i was not as sensitive as i thought in some of event, people and environment. But nevertheless, i am extremely sensitive when come to a total strange place for instance traveling to a total new place, new environment. My scanner will activate and super careful on each of the detail and change surrounding me including the people.

Unfortunately in some cases, especially those environment that i am too comfortable... I tensed to relax and lose some of my sensitivity. Due to this relaxing mode, I tensed to lost some of the important detail of signal/hint from the event and people surrounding me. I'm not ignoring those signal/hint. It actually registered that moments into my mind, but i just not aware of what need to be done until someone or some event actually come on board. When i tried to scan through my memory, i realized that i should have picked up those signal and try to take action immediately. Sigh~

When came to some event no one would tell you directly as this event/environment should be delivered through signaling/hinting then actions. Some how i failed to get some signal along the way. I'm still weak on capturing some of the signal in such an environment. I don't know it is because of lack of experiences or .... Anyway, if given another opportunity, I will definitely capture all the detail to this area of signaling/hinting follow by the reaction. Action count eh! 

Any of you have some experience to share? How is your sensitivity towards some event, people and environment? 

How important is Communication?

My job nature has given me a training ground to deal with people from various countries around the globe. I have the opportunities to work with people from different culture and different background. Not to say different age and ethnic group.

So many years of dealing with people around the world without seeing their facial expression when communicate with them. I have developed on a skill set to sense on whether they are happy or not happy from the tone of their voice and the way they write the sentence. 

Working is working and i found this is much more simple on communication as everything is NOT very much base on the feeling for the judgement. When come to communication with the person closer to you. It's always double the afford to make the communication clear and workable. If we don't communicate properly, there will a risk to trigger unnecessary perception or miss interpretation and it will destroy the rapport or relationship of two or more parties which has built for years. 

So do you think communication is important? Especially communicate with those person which we don't see daily...

Everything is POSSIBLE extreme Ride 2013

I received an invitation from Izwan, the RPM instructor to participate on the Everything is Possible Extreme Ride 2013 at Fitness First clubs. All the participants have to finished 24 rides in any RPM classes in order to be qualified for the Finale Ride i.e. 3 hours ride in Fitness First Avenue K. 

I was given the first signature after riding in Izwan RPM class @ Summit Wednesday. I still not sure whether should i continue to participate as i will be losing most of my muscle cause i need to attend 3 classes per week in order to get the qualification. 

The instructor signature

The report card :p

Here you go the step by step explanation. All the participants need to abide to the timeline given and finished the number of RPM classes accordingly to the timeline. Is this tough? I would say not to those RPM advance riders but for those beginner, you may need to put more effort to complete the requirement. 

Anyone interested to participate the Extreme Ride 2013?

I'm lost...

3rd day of year 2013... I survived 2012 end of the world but I'm really lost on what had happened recently. Please do not ask me what had happened because i will NOT review it. What i would say this might be a challenge for me to get this resolved but no matter how i will get myself together to face it and try my best to get this done.

Anyway on the bright side, it might be a good testing ground on how i handle this situation and also brought me to learn about something new that i never learnt before.

Everyone, I'm okay for now... so don't worry. This could only handle by myself. No help is necessary as of right now.

New Years Resolution for TZ

It's 2nd day of Year 2013... "So what is your new year resolutions" asked by almost all the people. So what is yours?

Me!!!...

• Be better on handling all the events, challenges which are surrounding me.  
• Spend more time with my parent, person i love, my close friends and of coz those new friends that i met which worth spending my valuable time with them. 
• Continue stay healthy and work out my long due 6 Packs wish... Can i achieve this year?
• Always reach for better opportunities and undertake better career enhancement. 
• Get one or two certification within 2013, maybe doing master in International Business.
• Seeing more parts of the world... I'm not yet plan which part of the world should i go LoL

Anyway, i will try my best to close all these resolution before the next review i.e. 2014. 

So what is your new year resolution? Do you have one?